KINDNESS AND FORGIVENESS

KINDNESS AND FORGIVENESS

Kindness is not holding a grudge 

Over someone who has hurt you

In some way and/or betrayed you.

Kindness is forgiving that so-called

Friend or enemy when you don’t 

Want to. Kindness and forgiveness

Gives you many benefits you and lets

You smile more so people will

Want to be around you more.

Holding a grudge and not

Forgiving someone will make you

Miserable and other people won’t 

Want to be around you. So instead of

Holding a grudge over someone

Forgive, Forgive, Forgive them and

You’ll find that you’ll be so happy 

About being happy that you’ll 

Never want to hold a grudge again.

 

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#Bullying, #Depressing News, #Be Positive

Everyone has their routine and something tells me watching the news falls in your routine somewhere. If it doesn’t, you’re lucky because the news is usually depressing anyway unless you have something like Royal wedding or a bunch of ducklings being rescued from a sewer drain and reunited with the mother duck(which actually did happen).

In my part of the world(don’t know about yours) the news is talking about bullying, sexual assault accusations, Trump canceling and un-canceling the summit with North Korea,  a lot of protesting over blacks getting shot and even more depressing news which I’m not going to list. I’m not trying to be mean but if you don’t follow commands you might get shot.

#BULLYING

#Bullying is very real. Bullying not only happened when I went to school and it happened a lot. Only Back then it wasn’t called bullying it was called being picked on continuously. Today some children that are bullied they take what they think the easy way out which is suicide. Also, please note that bullying can lead to sexual assaults. I found 2 flow charts on dealing with bullying. Actually, the charts deal with bullying and suicide. The charts are below. Please note that most of the time  the percentage of girls who thought about suicide and/or attempted suicide is higher than the boys.

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THIS CHART IS ABOUT THOUGHTS ABOUT SUICIDE VS. ATTEMPTED SUICIDE IN BOYS AND GIRLS.
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THIS CHART IS ABOUT SUICIDE RATES, BY REGION. ’05 TO ’14.

#DEPRESSING NEWS

#Depressing News is very real. I hate to say it but if you watch the news then your bound to come across depressing news daily. Actually, my solution to this problem is simple don’t watch the news. Oh I know what your probably thinking how am I supposed to find out the weather? Ever hear of a smart phone or a computer. Most of you have a smart phone and/or computer so check the weather that way. I found a link online that sends me Weather Updates twice a day, Amber Alerts(if there are any), Weather Alerts when warnings and/or watches are issued for the county I live in( which is Butler County), I get notified when there are recalls and so much more. I love this link.

#POSITIVE SOLUTIONS

#Positive Solutions is actually very simple.  I’m sure there are more positive solutions than what I’m going to list but if you think of additional solutions that’s great. Also, please feel free to let me know by using the contact form or comment form below my solutions.

MY SOLUTIONS FOR BULLYING

  1. Don’t bully anyone yourself.
  2. Try to prevent bullying before harm comes to either party.
  3. Keep encouraging your child or young adult and encourage the person who’s doing the bullying and you might see a change but there’s never any guarantees.
  4. Stay positive and give a friendly smile no matter what you’re feeling about the person.
  5. If you know that someone is think about committing suicide, GET THEM HELP RIGHT AWAY!!
  6. Learn the signs of someone wanting to commit suicide. One main sign is:
  • When they start giving their stuff away for no reason.

MY SOLUTIONS FOR DEPRESSING NEWS

  1. Don’t watch it.
  2. Only watch the non-depressing news(if there is any).
  3. Focus on the positive.
  4. Repeat 1, 2, & 3.

 

 

WEBSITES REVIEWING OTHER WEBSITES…

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INTRODUCTION

WARNING, WARNING!!!! Now that I got your attention let me welcome and say hello to everyone. Did you know there was a website that reviewed other websites to see if they were legit, to see how trustworthy they are, to check the reputation, to check the privacy, to check the safety and to check how safe it is for children. Then they give you a scorecard. 

WHO DOES THIS?

I found out that Google does this. 

 HOW DO I KNOW THIS?

I actually found this out by accident. You see one night I had put in to Cortana my WordPress Dashboard address and in the suggestions  this site popped up.  What is the site address that checks other sites? It is https://easycounter.com/report/ and the site you want to check. For example if I wanted to check WELCOME TO CRYSTAL’S SITE(ORIGINALLY COUNTRY LIVING), I would use http://easycounter.com/report/daisymae2017.wordpress.com to count the views and any other countable data for google searches. Yes I said Google searches. Can you believe they count Google searches?

WHAT ARE THE PROS OF KNOWING THIS?

The pros of knowing about this website are: 1.) You can check your website(s) or anyone else’s 2.) You can check the General Data of any website 3.) You can check any website’s Audience 4.) You can check any website’s Traffic Analysis 5.) You can check any website’s Subdomains 6.) You can check any website’s SEO Stats 7.) You can check any website’s Domain Data 8.) You can check any website’s Social data 9.) You can check any website’s Server Info and finally 10.) You can check any website’s Safety(this just shows how safe the website is).

WHAT ARE THE CONS OF KNOWING THIS?

In my opinion, I think what could be considered as Pros could also be considered Cons too. Why? I can answer that question in one word — PRIVACY.

IS WORDPRESS AWARE OF THIS SITE?

The answer to that is they are now. When I contacted WordPress and explained my situation, they told me they were surprised to find out that there were other websites that actually checked to see if your website was legit. I asked what can I do and they asked me with what WordPress features? I told them and they told me unless I upgrade to their Business Plan(which I don’t need at this time) that is where the plugins are at. I did find out that I wasn’t optimized with Google. They weren’t happy about that. Can’t please everyone.

WHAT DO I EXPECT YOU TO DO WITH THIS INFORMATION?

I do hope you read this post. It’s up to you what you do with the information given to you. It’s like the saying say: You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.

 

 

What Is LOVE…

What Is LOVE?

LOVE Is Loving A Person Or

Animal Unconditionally And 

Not Expecting Anything In Return.

LOVE Is Having Compassion.

LOVE Is Patience.

LOVE Is Kindness.

LOVE Is Not Losing Your Temper

With Someone When They Make 

You Angry And Frustrated.

LOVE Is Not Resentful.

LOVE Is Not Boastful.

LOVE Rejoices In

Truth Not Wrongdoing.

LOVE Endures All Things.

The Secret To LOVE 

Is Compromising And

Saying Yes Dear a lot.

 

 

TIGGER AND DAISY MAE(A FLOWCHART)

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TIGGER ON TOP OF THE CURIO CABINET. TIGGER PASSED AWAY ON 9-11-2015.

DAISY MAE AS A KITTEN

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DAISY MAE AS A KITTEN.

DAISY MAE AS AN ADULT CAT

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DAISY MAE SHOWING OFF HER GREY AND WHITE BELLY. DAISY MAE AT 11 1/2 YEARS OLD.

BOOK BLOGGER TEST

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I’ve been tagged by the BookHookedNook to do the Book Blogger Test Tag sort of. You see the BookHookedNook tagged a few people and then said “Feel free to do this tag or not!🙂”. So guess what my blogging friends? I’m doing this tag.🙂 BookHookedNook, I’m sorry I’m getting this post for this tag out late.


RULES

  1. Thank the person who nominated you and add a link to their blog.
  2. Answer the ten questions in this post.
  3. Nominate at least 5 people to do it also.
  4. Let your Nominees know you nominated them.

TOP THREE BOOKISH PET PEEVES

  1. Love Triangles.
  2. Instant Loves.
  3. To much going on.

THREE BOOK CONFESSIONS

  1. I dog ear my pages sometimes and fold the pages to mark my place.
  2. I sometimes let the book sit a few days before reading it.
  3. I hate books that seem thrown together and too much is going on.

LAST TIME YOU CRIED READING A BOOK?

Honestly, I don’t ever remember of crying while reading a book.

NUMBER OF BOOKS ON YOUR BEDSIDE TABLE?

I don’t have a bedside table so 0. However, I’ve got 1 unread book on my desk and who knows how many unread books around the house.

FAVORITE READING SNACK?

I normally read before bed or sitting on my bed so I don’t snack in bed for obvious reasons.

THREE BOOKS YOU’D RECOMMEND TO ANYONE:

  1. If Cats Could Talk: THE MEANING OF HIS MEOW by Mike Fertig.
  2. The BIBLE.
  3. Chicken Soup for the Christian: 101 Stories to Open the Spirit by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Patty Aubery & Nancy Mitchell with contributions from Norman Vincent Peale, Corrie ten Boom, Dick Van Patten, Charles W. Colson, Gary Smalley, Joan Wester Anderson, Dick Van Dyke And Many More.

A PICTURE OF YOUR BOOKSHELF

HAHA, HAHA YEAH RIGHT!! Sorry for the laughter but my bookshelf is not just in one place. My bookshelf is where I can find a place to put my books. So I apologize but I do not have a picture for you.

HOW MUCH DO BOOKS MEAN TO YOU?

My way of winding down and I think you should take care of books. Reading is a window into the future.

BIGGEST READING SECRET?

I actually have more than one reading secret. My secrets are:

  1. I let my books set a few days before reading them.
  2. I absolutely despise books that are just thrown together then the author tries to cover his/her tracks by adding additional chapters and/or words.
  3. I really don’t like Charles Stanley’s books.

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  1. Books & Adventures
  2. A Booknerd Travels
  3. theintrovertedbooknerd.wordpress.com
  4. EsmeSalon
  5. Books,dogs and cats

Also, if you weren’t tagged above and you want to do this tag, please feel free to do it.

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QUEEN DAISY MAE’S CAT QUOTES

Hello everyone, did you miss me? I thought I would visit Sister Crystal’s Blog (AKA Queen Deputy Crystal). You see the main Queen is my human Mom.  Well anyhow let’s get to the important stuff–CAT QUOTES. I know I have been lacks in getting cat quotes out to you. Sorry about that but I have good news for you and that is I have some cat quotes for you.

Cat Quote #1: No other animal inspires such devotion as the cat.

—-Linda Sunshine—-

Cat Quote #2: I named my kitten Rose—-fur soft as a petal, claws sharper than                                       thorns.

—-Astrid Alauda—-

Cat Quote #3: Don’t let anyone tell you loving a cat is silly. Love in any form is a precious commodity.

—-Barbara L. Diamond—-

Cat Quote #4: Cats don’t like change without their consent.

—-Roger A. Caras—-

Cat Quote #5: There is, indeed, no single quality of the cat that man could not                                         emulate to his advantage.

—-Carl Van Vechten—-

Cat Quote #6: A meow massages the heart.

—-Stuart McMillan—-

*Please Note* The above quotes are from a CATS 2018 CALENDAR that my sister got for me last Christmas.

I hope to get my quotes out to you more often but it will depend on how busy I am.

—-Queen Daisy Mae—-

REMEMBER TO:

SUPAWSTARS SPOTLIGHT AWARD: MAY 2018

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It’s that time of the month to give out The Supawstars Spotlight Award. This award is in recognition of a pawsome job from one pet blogger to another.

KittyClysm*  nominated me for this pet blogger award first and then Pets Overload nominated me for this award too so I have received this pet blogger award twice. This could happen to you too.text

The rules are simple but instead of trying to explain them I’m going to give you the link for the rules so you can read them yourself. That link is: Supawstars.com

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  1. paws2smile
  2. No Dog About It Blog
  3. Views and Mews by Coffee Kat
  4. The Cat Chronicles
  5. Noir Kitty Mews

  1. Animals Are Feeling Beings Too
  2. Books,dogs and cats
  3. Cats and Life
  4. RoseyToesMeows
  5. 15andmeowing.com
  6. Pets Overload
  7. Katzenworld
  8. The Conscious Cat
  9. CANNY CATNIP NOOK
  10. Cat Chat With Caren And Cody
  11. ATCAD
  12. Easy Blog
  13. Dash Kitten
  14. Spike The Scottish Black Cat
  15. 2 Blogging Cats
  16. Animals Are Wonderful
  17. Bad Cat Chris
  18. Feline Cafe` – Award Free Blog
  19. Mad Cap Dog
  20. Supawcute
  21. Tails Around The Ranch
  22. Hands on Bowie
  23. 4cats Blog
  24. TWOspoiledcats
  25. THE BLESSING OF ANIMAL COMPANIONS
  26. WEGGIEBOY’S BLOG – Award Free Blog
  27. Farmer Keen
  28. FrontSeatRyder
  29. Purrseidon
  30. THE VOKRA BLOG